Amy Tria

by Amy Tria, LMFT Many people who find their way to therapy have already been doing the work for a long time. They have read the books, sat with journals, listened to every podcast about anxiety and attachment and healing. They have built real insight into themselves. They understand where their patterns come from. They can connect the dots between what happened to them and how they move through the world today. And still, despite all of that understanding, something keeps happening that they...

By Amy Tria, LMFT Why many couples are not struggling with communication at all, but with nervous system protection, attachment wounds, and old emotional learning showing up in present-day conflict. When couples reach out for therapy, they almost always say the same thing: “We need help with communication.” On the surface, that sounds reasonable. There are raised voices, long silences, circular arguments, conversations that escalate too quickly or shut down too fast. It looks like poor...

By Amy Tria, LMFT | The Nest Therapy & Wellness I see it all the time. A woman walks through my door who is capable, self-aware, and often accomplished, and she is exhausted in a way that goes bone deep. She tells me she can't sleep, that her thoughts race at three in the morning and will not stop. She forgets words mid-sentence, loses her train of thought, walks into rooms and stands there blankly wondering why she came. She snaps at her kids over something small and then cries in the car on...